Nurturing the Mom Within: A Guide to Self-Care and Self-Love for Moms

Allison Kleinman

Are you a mom who feels like she's always running on fumes, putting everyone else's needs above your own? Being a mom is no doubt one of the most rewarding experiences in life, but it can also be incredibly challenging. From juggling work, school runs, grocery shopping, and meal prep, it's easy to neglect your own self-care and self-love. 

However, just like the oxygen mask on an airplane, taking care of yourself is crucial before you can take care of others. So, let's dive into some practical ways moms can practice self-care and self-love, with a particular emphasis on journaling, because let's face it, who doesn't love a good journaling session?

Prioritize self-care

The first step in practicing self-care and self-love is to prioritize it. It's easy to get caught up in the demands of motherhood and neglect our own needs. However, taking care of ourselves is essential to our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. 

Make a list of activities that make you happy and relaxed and schedule them into your routine. It could be anything from taking a relaxing bath, going for a walk, or practicing yoga. Having a list is useful so that you always have something to turn back to during those moments of overwhelm, or when you can't figure out what you want to do with the time you might have!

Practice self-compassion

As moms, we often set high expectations for ourselves and can be overly critical when we fall short. However, it's essential to practice self-compassion and kindness towards ourselves. Be gentle with yourself, and recognize that being a mom is a challenging job. Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion you would offer to a friend.

Woman on bed reading Kindle

Cultivate self-love

Self-love is essential to our well-being and can help us navigate the challenges of motherhood with more ease. Cultivate self-love by affirming your worth and value. 

Remind yourself of your strengths and accomplishments, and focus on the positive aspects of yourself. Practice self-care rituals that make you feel good and feed your soul.


Journaling is an effective tool for practicing self-care and self-love. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you process and release emotions, reduce stress, and gain clarity. Here are some tips for starting a journaling practice:

  • Find a quiet, comfortable space where you can write undisturbed.
  • Set a regular time for journaling, whether it's first thing in the morning, during your lunch break, or before bed.
  • Write freely without worrying about grammar or spelling. Focus on expressing your thoughts and feelings.
  • Focus on your feelings (release what's running in your head!) and gratitudes.
  • Reflect on your writing and notice any patterns or themes that emerge.

The Takeaway

If there's anything to remember from this post, it's this: taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it's a necessity. Practicing self-care and self-love is crucial for your well-being and your ability to be the best mom you can be. Whether it's taking a bubble bath, reading a book, or practicing yoga, make time for yourself, and don't feel guilty about it. And if you're looking for a powerful tool to support your self-care journey, grab a journal and start writing. 

Remember, by taking care of yourself, you're not only helping yourself, but you're also setting an example for your family, teaching them the importance of self-care and self-love. So, let's commit to making self-care and self-love a priority, because we deserve it, and our families deserve the best version of us. Happy self-care, mama.

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